Very few men are versed in the art of clitoral stimulation. Most shy away from eating a girl’s pussy altogether, not knowing that it is one of the most passionate and most intimate ways to satisfy a woman. For those who are willing to try, poor technique and a general lack of knowledge lets them down. So the question is: what is the best way to suck a girl’s clit?
Before You Start:
You should understand that the clitoris is the most sensitive part of the woman’s body. When properly stimulated, it can give her intense, body-rocking orgasms. Most men barely get past the clitoral hood as they fumble their way through poor oral performances. Getting your bearings while down there should be the first thing you do so that you know exactly where to lick, suck and nibble.
# 1 NEVER Go Straight to the Clitoris
There is no quicker way to kill the mood than to rush things. Oral sex is an art that requires patience and slow, deliberate foreplay. Set the mood by gently kissing her neck as you slowly make your way to the lower parts of her body. Take your time with her erogenous zones such as the nipples, the stomach, the inner thighs and finally her labia. The key is to get her all riled up by the time you get down there.
# 2 Build Up Sexual Tension
Do not be too forward or direct with your actions until her body literally begs for it. Tease her by gently kissing the insides of her thighs while deliberately brushing your lips over her vagina. You can gently blow some warm air over the clitoris or softly brush your lips against her labia but do not linger. Being verbal also helps a great deal in building sexual tension. Tell her how much you want to taste her or how good she smells. Nothing turns a woman on more than knowing that you want to please her more than anything.
# 3 Ease into It
Do not go rushing into it just yet. Start by long, gentle licks from the base of the vagina to the top of the clitoral hood. Use the broad part of your tongue to languorously lick her vagina from the bottom to the top. The clitoris is the icing on the cake so focus on her sensitive labia first and leave that for later.
Gently suck and nibble on her labia while occasionally flicking a tongue over her clitoral hood. If you are dexterous enough, you can combine sucking and licking at the same time. Remember that her lady parts are extra sensitive so make sure your lips and tongue are constantly wet.
# 4 Follow Her Lead
Although the clitoris is generally a very sensitive spot, different women prefer different types of touches to make them climax. Try a little bit of both the gentle licking and the more urgent licking techniques. Watch her reactions to see if she prefers one or the other. If she pulls your head closer or grinds her pelvis against you, it means that she prefers it harder. If she pulls away slightly, ease up and be gentle about it. If her clitoris is extra sensitive, you can give her more pleasure by gently flicking your tongue around it while ignoring the tip. Usually the extra sensitivity is a bit uncomfortable when touched directly.
If she prefers it hard and fast, you can gently push up the clitoral hood to get more access to her clitoris. Remember, keep everything super wet.
# 5 Lick and Suck
Do not confine yourself to one movement. Combine long and short strokes, vertical and horizontal strokes, and licking and sucking. Keep your jaw relatively slack and find a steady rhythm as you gradually build up speed. If you hit a spot, keep doing what you are doing and DON’T STOP until she comes to a glorious orgasm. Even then, you can keep on licking to give her another orgasm, and another. There is almost no limit to how many times you can make her climax.
Do not be shy in the bedroom when it comes to oral sex. The clitoris is the gateway to giving your woman multiple orgasms if you play your cards right. The most important thing is to make her feel like there is nothing you want more than to taste her all night long.